Tuesday, 31 January 2017

Piano



No, you are not what you listen to. You are not erudite to love classical music, you are not stupid to like to hip hop. You are more than your music taste. You are such a complex human being that judging a man or woman just by their taste in music is oversimplified. We live in a time where the media likes to oversimplify. But it's our job to re-complicate what politicians and the media wish to make too easy for us. Often because there is more than meets the eye if you look well enough.

Enough of that. Back to beauty.




Women as instruments of love. Of course they aren't, but these are all pictures of women and instruments. I posted before the Violin, the Harp and a  Pretty Violin. And now it's time to play the piano:

Monday, 30 January 2017

I love the look on her face

I love the look on her face. It confirms by bias that BDSM is one of the most intense, heartfelt relationships compared to a vanilla relation. I do not want to play down the intense love people in a vanilla relation can feel for each other of course, but I do think all D/s relations are soooo intense.
This picture proves it all again for me. What do you think?


Notice the clothes peg on the right

Sunday, 29 January 2017

Beautiful within

"I cannot believe I have to tell a woman that what counts how she on the inside, and not her looks", this is a discussion I had many times with my daughter. As we watched some tv-series and I commented how beautiful some character was, like how beautiful Meredith Grey is in Grey's Anatomy. She didn't understand I thought she was the prettiest woman on the face of the earth, but then again I had this romantic notion of women being more sensitive and more focussed on the inside than on the outside.

It is just my overly romantic idea of course. Women are just like all other human beings, and judge people only on their outside as well. Of course they do. But it's nice to say it out loud:


She was beautiful deep down her soul.
She is beautiful.


Saturday, 28 January 2017

Off to bed you two

It's time. Go to bed you two. Sleep? Who said anything about sleep? Hold on, it's going to be a bumpy ride.



Friday, 27 January 2017

To all restaurant owners

I read this post on Facebook. It's a simple but effective way to protect women who are not sure how their date will end, at least those who expect it to be nasty. Just order an Angel Shot. Smile. Love the name of that drink. Now if more restaurants would take care of their female vulnerable customers the world would be just a bit more safe.

Everbody is focussing now on Terrorist attack dangers. An American woman has a 25 to 26 percent chance of being raped in her lifetime (1 in 4). (Greenberg, Bruess and Haffner, 573; Horowitz, 413; Lips, 233). Compared to the likelihood of you drowning in a bathtub (1 in 800,000), losing your life in a car crash (1 in 19,000), dying in a building fire (1 in 99,000), or being struck by lightning (1 in 5,500,000). We should honestly be more concerned about heart disease, strokes, or cancer, before we should worry about any terrorist threat. It should also be noted that terrorist incidents have only increased in prevalence since the inception of the war on terror back in 2001. Clearly, the ongoing warfare is only contributing to more of the same problem and that warfare isn't justified when we should more rightly be afraid of things like tornadoes, earthquakes, floods, dog bites, excessive heat, and bicycle accidents.

So the chance of 1 in 4 is good enough to copy this sign and put in your restroom.



Thursday, 26 January 2017

Tu déchires mon âme en deux

That is the difference between French and American language.
Tu déchires mon âme en deux: You tear my soul in half. That is why French is the language of lovers. Nothing to do with You Rock. You rock modern junk for You rip, you break, you mutilate my heart. In French you feel your heart being ripped apart. Demolished by a four wheel truck. Taken apart with surgical precision.

Never earned a grade above 4 on a scale from 1 to 10, where 10 is excellence for French in school. But that doesn't mean I can't appreciate the words. 


Wednesday, 25 January 2017

Welcome from the Netherlands

The Netherlands welcomes Trump in his own words. This welcome speech has more than 1 million views on the YouTube.  It's from a kind of "last week tonight show", but I admit John Oliver is way better than Mr. Lubach of the Netherlands.


Tuesday, 24 January 2017

Soliloquise

 soliloquise - soliloquised -  soliloquising

 It's the British spelling of the American "soliloquize". It means according to Merriam Webster:
talk to oneself.
What a wonderful word, and what a wonderful title for a blog.

Historical examples from the Web for soliloquise:

  • There was a night-scene, in which I had to soliloquise, while rocking my child and singing it to sleep with some old ditty.
     
  • To please himself rather than his hostess, who he knew could not understand a word he spoke, he continued to soliloquise aloud.
    The North Pacific Willis Boyd Allen 
     
  • But we have no time to stay and admire or to soliloquise over scenery.
    On the Heels of De Wet The Intelligence Officer 
     
  • There she lingered, rather like the Ancient Mariner without a wedding-guest to whom she might soliloquise.
    Dodo Wonders E. F. Benson 
     
  • She treats it with absolute indifference, and begins to soliloquise, with a touch of scorn in her language.
     

Monday, 23 January 2017

BDSM Logo

I have explained the symbolism of the BDSM logo before.  A tattoo artist called Zelo made something interesting out of the logo for a tattoo artist to put on your skin. Any volunteers?





Sunday, 22 January 2017

Saturday, 21 January 2017

When to wear an overcoat

It's cold in the room I'm writing this blog post right now. I had a look on temperature outside and it's freezing, just a bit.


I am cold, and I have a cold. It reminds me of my mum that used to warn us not to have your coat on going in and out of the house. This weekend I moved my daughters stuff over to her house. She is living there since Sunday now. And yes, I do miss her. But in moving her stuff we walked a lot in and out of her house of course.
I have this book called "Principles of Public Health" by Thos. D. Tuttle. It was published in 1910, four years before the great war started. It's a very nice book because it explains the most essential now common sense things about hygiene and staying healthy. It's on Gutenberg as well. Here is what inspired my mum used to say to us:



In cold weather the same amount of clothing should not be worn in the house and outdoors; for this reason, we have overcoats. If you wear your overcoat in the house, you will become over warm and your underclothing will then become damp with perspiration; when you go outdoors into the cold air, this dampness will have just the same effect as would dampness that comes from outside.

As soon as the weather gets cold, put on your overcoat every time you go outdoors, and take it off as soon as you come into the house. This is troublesome for boys and girls to do, because they want to run in and out of the house so often; but on the other hand, think of all the cells you will kill if you do not do this, and you will certainly consider it worth while to take off your coat and put it on again.

Friday, 20 January 2017

Womens right to vote

It seemed appropriate to me to put this post on the blog on Inauguration Day.
The inauguration of Donald Trump as the 45th President of the United States will mark the commencement of the four-year term of Donald Trump as President and Mike Pence as Vice President.

The inauguration theme is "Uniquely American", a phrase that highlights the inaugural ceremony as "a uniquely American expression of our Constitutional system." The theme also stresses the peaceful transition of power, and that the American people are "united behind an enduring republic."[1] The inaugural ceremonies held in Washington, D.C. from January 17 to 21, 2017 will include concerts, the swearing-in ceremony, luncheon and parade, inaugural balls, and the interfaith inaugural prayer service. The presidential oath will be administered to Trump during his swearing-in ceremony on January 20, 2017 by Chief Justice of the United States John Roberts and the vice presidential oath of office will be administered to Pence by Associate Justice Clarence Thomas.
commencement of the four-year term of Donald Trump as President and Mike Pence as Vice President. A public ceremony will be held on Friday, January 20, 2017, on the West Front of the United States Capitol Building in Washington, D.C.
Source: Wikipedia

And if you are a dedicated Trump fan or Trump hater the people of the United States of America have voted en masse for Mr. Trump. And that is how a democracy functions, the majority of the voters decide who is going to be, in this case the President of the US of A.

 It is interesting that exactly 100 years ago women needed to parade in New York City in 1917, carrying placards with signatures of more than a million women that demanded a right to vote.


It took in America until 1920 women got their legal right to vote nationally. In 1916 Alice Paul formed the National Woman's Party (NWP), a militant group focused on the passage of a national suffrage amendment. Over 200 NWP supporters, the Silent Sentinels, were arrested in 1917 while picketing the White House, some of whom went on hunger strike and endured forced feeding after being sent to prison. Under the leadership of Carrie Chapman Catt, the two-million-member NAWSA also made a national suffrage amendment its top priority. After a hard-fought series of votes in the U.S. Congress and in state legislatures, the Nineteenth Amendment became part of the U.S. Constitution on August 26, 1920. It states, "The right of citizens of the United States to vote shall not be denied or abridged by the United States or by any State on account of sex."
Source: Wikipedia

These women were called suffragists and there was quite a hate campaign against them. Look at these:
Suffragists consists of only ugly women

Suffragists are women that cannot get a husband, and therefore are militant

Suffragists are disappointed in love and therefore wanting to right to vote

Suffragists hate men

Who said anything about dirty campaigning of this President election? The right for women to vote was a tough battle with heated arguments on both sides. It seems so long ago, but it's really isn't 100 years old. And the women of America have now chosen this President. If you agree with their choice or not, it's their choice and it's not a matter of course that they have earned that very right.



Thursday, 19 January 2017

At my feet

Some days I just want to find you in the evening at my feet. Holding me as you will find strength flowing from holding my leg into your heart. Some days I need you here at my feet with your head finding comfort against my leg. Some days I want you close to me. We don't need to see each other in the eyes, we don't need to talk, just lean on me.

This is one of those days.


Wednesday, 18 January 2017

In the arms of an angel

Spend all your time waiting for that second chance
For the break that will make it ok
There's always some reason to feel not good enough
And it's hard at the end of the day
I need some distraction oh beautiful release
Memories seep from my veins
They may be empty and weightless and maybe
I'll find some peace tonight

In the arms of an Angel fly away from here
From this dark, cold hotel room, and the endlessness that you fear
You are pulled from the wreckage of your silent reverie
You're in the arms of an Angel; may you find some comfort here

So tired of the straight line, and everywhere you turn
There's vultures and thieves at your back
The storm keeps on twisting, you keep on building the lies
That you make up for all that you lack
It don't make no difference, escaping one last time
It's easier to believe
In this sweet madness, oh this glorious sadness
That brings me to my knees

In the arms of an Angel far away from here
From this dark, cold hotel room, and the endlessness that you fear
You are pulled from the wreckage of your silent reverie
In the arms of an Angel; may you find some comfort here

You're in the arms of an Angel; may you find some comfort here


Sarah McLachlan

Tuesday, 17 January 2017

Seen one, seen them all

Oh, I have posted quite few of pictures like this. I know.
But it has so much attraction to me. It's not very much Wanita play, it's more a fantasy that one day might be fulfilled. I'm a dreamer. I love the look on her face and his "study"of the newspaper, and we both know that he's not reading one word.


Monday, 16 January 2017

Underrated Dominant Phrases

To be dominant means not being able to care. As I posted before I have more with the gentle approach than the brutal one. I'm not into humiliation or the power shift in the marriage. I'm more into the loving submission...
“Have you eaten?”
“Drive carefully.”
“Good morning, beautiful.”
“What did you have for lunch today?”
“Sleep well.”
“I’m proud of you.”
“Are you feeling better?”
“Take a sweater, it’s cold out.”
“Be safe.”

Sunday, 15 January 2017

Saturday, 14 January 2017

Shoe fetish

Some people have a thing with shoes. They make their sub lick their shoes.

That is fine if you both like it, but I simply don't. I don't get a kick out of humiliating someone, and it really doesn't make me feel. And she gets nothing out of it except a dirty tongue (and she already has one, oh God I'm so predictable). No.

It's not my thing. Licking your bare feet (if they are clean) sometimes feels nice, but no.
I'd rather use her tongue for something else.



Friday, 13 January 2017

What the world needs is a return to sweetness and decency

Roman Holiday from 1953. Audrey Hepburn and Gregory Peck. My mum used to have a crush on mr. Peck. And after 64 years the world still needs is a return to sweetness and decency.



Wednesday, 11 January 2017

Looks familiar?

Not sure I will be able to hang on to my usual posting schedule. If I'm not I am busy putting stuff together. I will not mention IKEA, but it's a big home furnishing store from Mona Lisa's country.We are decorating my daughters apartment and times far more time (and effort) than I anticipated.

I'm sure it will look beauteous after all of the Scandinavian furniture is in her house.


Monday, 9 January 2017

Wanita's birthday

This year in November I started to make a present for her birthday. It's today. And as you might remember, I got this idea of a Note Jar. Each day you pick one out.

Each one is Handwritten and not a print from some site. So that makes each one personal. There are messages of love, comfort, perseverance and love. I planned to do a whole year, but with my daughter getting her own house in December it ruined my schedule, so I "only" could write 150 messages. They were too big for a jar, so I put them in a box. 

There are rules of course for reading them:
  • Just read one message a day, 
  • Not more than one and no cheating.
  • Messages are personal. If you want to share what it says, feel free. But if you want to keep it to yourself feel free to do so.
  • If you forget to pick one, the next day you are not allowed to pick two. 
I hope she likes it as much as I liked making them.

Sunday, 8 January 2017

Saturday, 7 January 2017

Daddy Doms and their little girls


I often had issues with the words Daddy Dom and Littles. The incestuous nature of that relation was a no-go area. My prejudices were confirmed by pictures of women in child clothes. Until I read this very good article about Daddy Doms that explains a lot. And I do recognize some of the need of nurturing, so once again it's good to have an open mind.
"He protects her, guides her when she is unsure of loses her way, he helps her reach her goals and is proud of her when she does." Isn't it interesting? I think it is. (It's written in I-form but the I reflects the author, not me, per se)

There is a lot of controversy and misconception surrounding this particular type of D/s relationship and to be honest, i, myself, was one of those perpetrators of ignorance until a few weeks back. Most people who do not put the time and effort into researching and trying to understand the Daddy Dom / little girl relationship dynamic are convinced that it revolves around incest and/or paedophilia. While for some individuals this is true, for the majority of true Daddy Dom and little girl relationships this couldn’t be further from the truth.
The first point i’d like to make is: Daddy Doms and their little girls are NOT sick and twisted perverts driven by deep seated incestuous or paedophilic desires.
Taking it too far – when men want their littles to look and act like real little girls because they get off from the illusion of having sex with an underage child. This kind of creeps me out to be honest!

Daddy Doms are not Fathers:
Unlike age-players who both enjoy and get off on viewing their partner as a real father figure or child, Daddy Doms are not fathers to their littles nor are littles children to their Daddy Doms. Daddy Doms view their roles much as a Master or Dominant would theirs, as a position of power over their submissive.
Little girls are NOT daughters:
Little girls do not desire a father or father figure, nor do they desire to be or be seen as little children. They are simply adult women with a childlike personality and who appreciate an emotionally mature partner to protect, comfort and love them. Littles in a DD/lg relationship are not interested in incest!

If he isn’t a father and she isn’s a daughter, what are they?
Daddy Doms are Dominants who simply assume a much more nurturing and caring role than Dominants in other types of D/s relationships. Little girls are submissive women who have a naturally childlike personality that is especially dominant in them when they are around a Daddy Dom who makes them feel safe and cherished.
Getting it right – a woman’s figure, ample assets, she is a real woman with a hint of child-like little coming through

Daddy Doms vs. Masters:
Daddy Doms are just like other Dominants and Masters but with 1 or 2 key differences. They still take charge and enjoy being in control but they often enforce different kinds of rules. Daddy Doms will more likely focus on their submissive’s personal growth, goals and needs than on things like protocol and how certain actions are carried out. Another difference is that Daddy Doms not only accept but actually value and treasure their submissive’s inner little, encouraging their sub to enter and even live in ‘little space’, to play and to explore and enjoy their little side. Other Masters may rather prefer a submissive with an adult attitude towards life and may actually find littles annoying. Another big difference between other Dominants and Daddy Doms is that being playful, having fun and being able to laugh, A LOT, is a necessity and it is also essential to have a nurturing and affectionate relationship with your little. Not to say that other types of Masters cannot show affection but for the most part they seem to me more stoic, more rigid and far less full of warm fuzzies.

The Title of ‘Daddy’:
When a little calls her Dominant ‘Daddy’, it is only a title, a love name if you will, and not meant as a reference to a father in any way. This title alone has caused much controversy and even some life-stylers in Daddy Dom / little girl relationships have their reservations about it. The feeling a little gets from calling her Dominant ‘Daddy’ is certainly not the same feeling she will get when calling her father ‘daddy’. Just the same, one will not feel the same when you say ‘I love you’ to your parents and to your lover/partner.
The Title of little girl:
Daddy Doms may call their littles by many different love names, dependant on his own personal preference and the personality of his little. Some names for littles may include little girl, little one, sweetheart and many others. Just as Daddy is simply a title so it ‘little girl’ and it by no means refers to the submissive as a daughter or underage child.

Daddy Doms and Sadism: Just because a Daddy Dom is nurturing and affectionate does not mean that he cannot be sadistic as well. They can enjoy and embrace their inner sadist while catering to and fulfilling their submissive’s masochistic side. Littles and Masochism:
Not all submissives are masochists and so too not all littles enjoy pain. However, there is a good deal that does enjoy having their Dominant inflict physical pain on them, predominantly through spanking. It is these littles how are most compatible with a sadistic Daddy Dom who will feed their craving for pain and take pleasure in it at the same time.

What is a Daddy-Dom’s job? First and foremost, Daddy Doms are Dominants and as such it is his job to take charge of his little, to guide her and help her achieve her goals, to protect her and to love and nurture her. Other types of Dominants may be free to flippantly order their submissive around purely for their own pleasure but Daddy Doms dominate and enforce rules according to goals set in place in order to nurture and guide their little and based on what is in their submissive’s best interest.
That being said, Daddy Doms do get a great deal of pleasure from their littles both sexually and otherwise.

Why Daddy Doms are the way they are and why do they like ‘little’ submissives?
Being a Daddy Dom is simply a part of someone’s personality, he likes being a dominant but he likes doing to in a more affectionate and nurturing capacity than is the accepted norm for D/s lifestyle relationships. Daddy Doms often enjoy and find both the little and adult sides of their submissives attractive and can appreciate them both. Littles appeal to them because they cater to their desires to nurture, protect and love as well as him enjoying and being amused by the natural, child-like little girl personality in a beautiful adult woman’s body. (NOTE: Daddy Doms are not paedophiles; they do not see their submissives as little girls but rather appreciate the naturally occurring child-like attributes of their personality.)

Why are littles the way they are and why do they need a Daddy Dom?
Littles are unique women who retain a childlike aspect of their personality. This isn’t to say that there is something wrong with them, on the contrary, although the majority of society doesn’t understand their inner little and so sees it as something undesirable. These women need Daddy Doms to make them feel safe, to embrace their inner littles and accept them for who they are in their entirety, the grown up woman and the inner little girl.

Daddy Doms, little girls and Sex
Because of the misconceptions that Daddy Doms are fathers to their littles, reconciling the Daddy/little girl relationship with 2 sexually active, consenting adults often leads to the conclusion that these couples must be sick perverts. This is not true, Daddy Dom/little girl relationships, unlike age role-players, do not see or desire to see their partners as underage children or real father figures. They see each other as consenting adults with the bodies and minds of competent adults. It is simply their personalities that define them as mature, nurturing and dominant or child-like, young at heart and submissive.

What is a Daddy Dom Like?
Daddy Doms love their littles unconditionally. They cherish the woman as well as her inner little and revel in her childlike personality, her innocence and her appreciation of the simple things like cuddles and cartoons on a weekend morning, milkshakes instead of coffee and the way she turns to him for reassurance. He protects her, guides her when she is unsure of loses her way, he helps her reach her goals and is proud of her when she does. Daddy Doms with a sadistic streak may love to cause her physical pain, the type she likes and craves, but he hates and does everything he can not to hurt her emotionally. He will punish her for transgression, whether he enjoys it or not, and will praise her for a job well done. It takes a great deal of discipline and strength from a Daddy Dom to do what he needs to do: dominate, care for, guide, punish, praise, comfort, understand and love his little. He draws on his own life experiences to guide her and keep her safe all the while accepting her as his, all parts of her – grown up and little.

What is a little like?
Littles are very complex women as they are both sexy, adult women and cute inner littles. They can very well run a company but also may sleep with a teddy bear at night for comfort. She enjoys ‘little’ behaviour which may include games, puzzles, colouring in, arts and crafts, watching cartoons and going out for ice-cream. However, she also enjoys adult interests such as sexy lingerie, girls night out with friends, shopping and much more. She feels safest in her Daddy Dom’s arms and around him she is free to be herself, a quickly mix of adult and little girl and she is free to pursue her ‘little’ interests. She may be needy and whiny at times, she may have irrational fears. She will most likely pout and sulk sometimes but she will also light up with an innocent child-like enthusiasm for things she enjoys and, of course, for her Daddy Dom. She is submissive by nature, seeing the guidance, domination and nurturing love of a Daddy Dom who will guide, protect and comfort her when the world becomes too much to handle. She respects him, submits to his will and trusts him completely to keep her save and love her.

Daddy Dom and little girl vs. Age Play:
Unlike age players, Daddy Doms and their littles are not after the experience of being a father/older man or a physically and mentally underage child, desires which stem from deeply rooted incestuous and paedophilic desires. They are 2 adults with specific personality traits who are compatible with each other and work together towards a common goal, much like any other ‘vanilla’ relationship. Little girl submissives may have teddy bears and often enjoy many of the pastimes that younger children enjoy like puzzles, games and watching cartoons. They may also enjoy wearing cutsey items like PJ’s with cute bunnies or teddies on them, cartoon character t-shirts and maybe even wearing their hair in pigtails. However, their aim is not to look prepubescent because even under all that cute they are still a whole lot of fully grown adult woman.
There is always an exception:
There is always an exception to every rule and DD/lg relationships are no different. There will always be those living under the label of Daddy Dom and little girl who derive pleasure not from the relationship as i have outlined above but rather as a more permanent type of age role play where the little is chosen for her young age and acts, dresses and is essentially made to be an underage child. Where both parties derive pleasure from fulfilling deep seated paedophilic and incestuous fantasies through age role play and label it a DD/lg relationship. Now, i’m not talking about the super common school girl fantasy that many men have, after all, a more mature woman can easily dress up as a school girl to make that fantasy a reality for her partner without crossing the line. What i am talking about is barely legal littles with nearly prepubescent bodies who can easily pass for being 13 or 14 years old in the right clothes who are adopted by ‘Daddy Doms’ for their ability to, when acting the part, seem like a real underage child and the dominants get their pleasure from the illusion that they are really being intimate with a child. That is not the Daddy Dom and little girl relationship i am referring to as defined by my personal opinions on what i think DD/lg should be.
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more articles in the Library For Kinksters.

Thursday, 5 January 2017

Pause

Sometimes I take a pause in a sentence where people don't expect them. It's to make me collect my thoughts and say what I want to say in the right words. I came accross this one to make a pause in your writing:


Wednesday, 4 January 2017

My five P's...

I'm looking forward to some time of my own so I can do some writing. Until that time, I keep myself busy with trying to make characters more complicated and therefore more interesting.

I like to think in concepts. This one for example:

infographic

Tuesday, 3 January 2017

It was black, but now it's back

True, some clips on YouTube are special to me. One of those channels is crash-restraint.com. Their tutorial video's are of exceptional good quality.
But YouTube clips have a huge disadvantage as well: If the owner puts it off-line it's gone forever on every YouTube channel. Of course this is the same with Blogs, Vlogs and all other content on the Internet. But most of the time it can be found somewhere. So when crash-restaint.com went black it really went black.
But now they are back! And how. With this special 2D/3D clips (you can choose 3d/2d in the bar below). Welcome back guys.

Monday, 2 January 2017

To Winter

He hears me not, but o’er the yawning deep
Rides heavy; his storms are unchain’d, sheathed
In ribbed steel; I dare not lift mine eyes;
For he hath rear’d his scepter o’er the world.

Lo! now the direful monster, whose skin clings
To his strong bones, strides o’er the groaning rocks:
He withers all in silence, and in his hand
Unclothes the earth, and freezes up frail life.

He takes his seat upon the cliffs, the mariner
Cries in vain. Poor little wretch! that deal’st
With storms; till heaven smiles, and the monster
Is driven yelling to his caves beneath Mount Hecla.

William Blake

Sunday, 1 January 2017

2017

Let me begin to wish you a happy new year. All the rest and all, good health, prosperity, lose a bad boss, but above all else: be happy. Seek happiness in all small things that come your way, for true happiness make the sun shine brighter.

What will happen next year?
Well, according to http://psychics.co.uk/blog/predictions/ this is going to happen:

  • Denmark and Italy pull out of EU as Euro crashes. 2017 sees Italy in serious economic problems.
  • Britain escapes the worst of the international economic troubles and is seen as a safe economic haven. Britain, India and Australia form an economic alliance.USA experiences a serious drought during the summer of 2017 while Europe has floods.
  • Large fire at the UK Houses of Parliament
  • New War spills into Afghanistan as revolution erupts in Uzbekistan
  • Terrorists make toxic or biological attack on school in Europe.
It can be worse, www.alamongordo.com  predicts on the basis of a priest in the 12th century Israels future. Jerusalem would parish in 2017 according to his writings.

For me, 2017 is a year of change. My daughter is leaving the house in 2017 and for the first time in 22 years Wanita and I will be alone again. That is exciting. It is scary. This thing actually has a name the empty nest syndrome. Now I don't like syndromes in general, but this one I don't like at all. Men are supposed to suffer less of this syndrome (don't know why, only because many women have menopause as well seems not a good reason).

Anyway, I like it that she is becoming independent. Her home is adjusted to her needs, she has a two room apartment with a double sized bed. My girl thinks ahead. Her kitchen sink can go high (at standing height) or low (at wheelchair height). It really blows your mind if you see it (like this one).
It took us a month to paint and decorate it, but half January it is finished.
How will Wanita and I cope? Will we grow more close or just the opposite? Will our play increase or be different or not?

We cannot change the world events. We can however, strive to be happy. May your days be happy, all of them.
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